great links for washing issues:
supplies do I need to start cloth diapering my baby?
depending on baby's age, how frequently and heavily baby wets and
messes, how frequently you plan on changing and how frequently you
will wash (every 2-4 days is ideal). I believe that fewer diapers
leads to more frequent washing, which helps diapers last longer since
they spend less time sitting around soiled. Sell the ones you do not
Newborn babies poo a lot and therefore require frequent changes. But
wetting patterns can be very variable from baby to baby and really
has little correlation with age. Some babies wet small amounts very
frequently, other babies wet much less frequently but let out a flood
when they do go. They will probably need fewer diapers that are much
more absorbent to catch the flood. How often you change is a personal
decision. But if you change as soon as you know your babe wets then
he or she is less likely to wet as soon as they get a new diaper on
and therefore get to spend more time in a nice dry diaper.
five (or more) diaper covers, depending on type of diapers
and covers used. Fitted diapers and fastened prefolds require fewer
covers than prefolds or contours just laid in the wraps. Most covers
can be reused throughout the day and only need to be washed when they
Two to three dozen cloth wipes
Diaper pail liner I no longer use a diaper pail.
The liner takes up less space and works great!
Laundry detergent, preferably with no bleach, dyes
or additives that will irritate delicate skin, and preferably something
that will rinse clean. Detergent residues are the most complicated
part of washing diapers. Soap residue will decrease absorbency.
fleece liners to keep baby dry when you cannot change as
soon as they wet. They are nice for outings, naps and overnights.
Disposable liners to aid in cleanup of messies, nice
for the pasty transitional poo stage when they start solids, not necessary
for bf poo.
Doublers for added absorbency (for heavy wetters
and naptime/overnight.) Most babies need to use doublers by the time
they are 8 months old, depending on which type of diapers you use.
Adding layers like a doubler to your diaper will always be better
then looking for a super thick diaper that is impossible to clean.
Vinegar in the rinse cycle to remove detergent residues,
neutralize pH and soften diapers. Use a small amount in the first
rinse. Do not use if you have lots of minerals in your water. I only
use a small amount of vinegar if I have a detergent buildup problem.
Do I really
need all this stuff?
Actually I am working
hard on simplifying my life and I have done lots to simplify my cloth
diapering supplies as well. For starters I do not have tons of diapers.
The fewer the better works well for me. I do not like to leave dirty
diapers too long, so I wash every other day or so and have found that
I always need fewer then the standard 36 for a newborn and 24 for
an older babe that most people recommend. I recommend buying a modest
diapering supply and then buying more as you need it.
I do not use a bazillion covers. Using a Snappi on my prefolds and
fitted diapers means the covers rarely get soiled. I wash every other
day, so I find three or four day covers and two night covers to be
plenty. If you are using wool, you may find that you need even fewer.
Anything can be used as a diaper doubler. It just needs to be absorbent
enough to hold what you need it to and small enough to fit in the
diaper. Anything can be used as a pocket insert too, although absorbency
and filling the pocket properly is critical with PUL pockets. But
for hemp pockets, you can use wipes or doublers, etc. to fill them.
You can make thick cotton or hemp wipes do double duty by using them
as doublers for newborn diaper and wipes when sturdier wipes are needed
on food eating toddlers.
You don't need a ton of wipes. You can cut up old flannel blankets,
cotton clothes even holey diapers to make wipes. I do not worry about
serging them because I do not sew, so when they get too frayed I toss
them and cut up another garment that I was going to throw out anyway.
I call it recycling, taking something you are going to get rid of
and using it longer until it is really used up. I have found that
many fabrics fray much more slowly then I thought they would and I
get quite a lot of use out of some things.
I have no plastic diaper pail. I prefer a hanging pail liner without
a pail as they take up less space and have better airflow, which is
essential to avoid nasty fermentation stink. Dirty diapers stored
with good airflow are much less stinky and probably last longer too.
Start simple. Cloth diapering can be as easy as you want it to be!
So why buy
the fancy stuff?
Because it is fun!
Something done as frequently as diaper changing should be as fun as
possible. If you have fun diapers in your diaper stash, then you are
more likely to enjoy and stick with cloth diapering. And buying a
modest amount of fancy diapers will still save you lots of money in
the long run compared to what you would have spent on disposables,
especially if you resell them when you are done with them. So do not
worry about how much stuff you have, but do have enough fun stuff
in your stash to make cloth diapering fun!
How do you measure
rise, thigh and waist?
a much more accurate predictor of fit then weight. Waist is around
the waist where the top of the diaper will be. Thigh is around the
leg where the diaper will be. Rise is from belly button, thru the
crotch to the back.
How do I fold prefold
and flat diapers?
Whereas I really
want to have more information on folding right here, until I get the
time to create that try some of these wonderful links....
Diaper Hyena- Folding 101
Origami Fold Page
for Nighttime Diapering?
is considered the most challenging thing to figure out in cloth diapering.
Trying to find a diaper that will hold an entire night's worth of
wetness without being so bulky that it is uncomfortable is the key.
People are always asking for product recommendations for nighttime.
I think that any style product (prefold, fitted, pocket) will work.
The important factor is how absorbent it is. As long as the absorbency
is great enough to hold the nighttime wetness, it will work fine.
Bonuses are a stay-dry liner, because you will not be changing when
the baby wets, and a breathable cover to keep things cooler. So check
out the absorbency charts to see what
products will work best for your little one. Try to find a product
with maximal absorbency and reasonable bulk, add a stay-dry liner
or doubler, put it under a breathable cover like wool or double layer
fleece, or stuff it into a pocket big enough to hold your stuffers,
and you will be good to go. If using pockets be sure you have excellent
leg fit, no buildup in your microfleece, and a pocket properly stuffed
with something that absorbs fast enough for your baby. So try a hemp
prefold under a fleece cover or a hemp fitted with a doubler under
a wool cover or a micro- and a hemp-stuffed pocket. Just be sure whatever
you try has the absorbency your babe needs. If the overnight diaper
is wicking wetness because it is getting too soggy, then try some
more absorbency. What works best for your babe?
for Newborn Diapering?
can be tricky because they are so tiny and it is hard to put enough
absorbency into a diaper that is small enough not to overwhelm the
tiny babe. Luckily they wet and poo so frequently that more frequent
diaper changes means less absorbency is needed. Just remember, the
smaller the diaper usually mean the lower the absorbency. Some babes
do fine in the teeny diapers and others really do better if you add
some tiny doublers to bulk up the absorbency. You will find out quickly
if yours is one of these
The other tricky part about diapering newborns is how explosive their
poo is. Containment is a big factor. Many folks really like fitted
diapers during this period for this reason, as fitteds are undoubtedly
the best at containing poo. Anything that gets past the fitted is
sure to be caught in the cover. But I find a well-fastened prefold
can be almost as good. (Love my Snappis!) And the great thing about
diapering a newborn is that generally they love the attention involved
in the whole process and do not do much to get away. So you have plenty
of time to get your diaper on just the way you like!
for diapering an older baby?
At my house babies
get too busy to be bothered with diapering. So we get into the stage
I call "Gator Wrestling!" My solution to this stage is to
diaper standing up most of the time (except for messy diapers.) So
I like fitteds, AIOs or pockets (preferably with snaps), which can
all be easily put on a standing (or running) child. Even if you diaper
your child laying down, you will still want something that is easy
to quickly put on your little squirmer. Active babies also need a
well fastened diaper to prevent shifting. And remember that even though
you can put velcro-like closures on a squirming toddler faster then
snaps, most toddlers learn to remove them just as fast, so they can
only be used when well hidden by pants!
What works best
for hot weather diapering?
For coolness in diapering
what you want is breathability!
So for covers no PUL or waterproof layer, instead go for a breathable
fleece or wool cover. They will be much cooler then a waterproof cover
or a disposable diaper. Lots of products say they are breathable,
but not all breathability is the same. Having a product not be airtight
can still be very hard to breath thru. I always use the "hold
it up to my face and breath test" to judge breathability. There
is lots of variation in breathability in fleece or wool covers as
well. In fleece it depends on what the fabric is treated with for
waterproofness. In wool it depends on the tightness of the weave.
But most of the time I let my boy go coverless around the house. (In
a fitted diaper or Snappied prefold.) I just change him as soon as
he wets. (And of course no clothes over a coverless diaper.) For coolness
in the diaper it is the same breathability factor. And again it is
the tightness of the weave that effects breathability. The tighter
the weave the less breathable and the slower to absorb the material
will be. But it will be trimmer. The looser the weave the more breathable
and the faster it will absorb. But it will be bulkier. So decide how
much bulk versus speed of absorbency and breathability you want and
go from there.
Can you recommend
a starter sampler pack for someone new to cloth diapers? I am thinking
AIOs would be easiest.
Actually I do not
think that AIOs are the easiest. If they take more effort in the laundryroom
running them thru lots of rinses and such like, then your life is
not easier. And other styles of diapering are much easier then most
Everyone should have at least one or two prefolds
to try. Folding is much easier then you would think, washing them
is a snap, and they are very affordable. If you decide you do not
want to use them as diapers they make great changing pads, burp cloths
and general goo catchers! Add a Snappi diaper fastener
to make using prefolds even easier!
Fitted diapers are great because you can do standing
diaper changes, leave diapers coverless when you want for airing out
time (but no clothing over a coverless diaper or they will get wet!)
and work great with lots of great breathable fleece and wool covers!
They are my diaper of choice. I do find the extra step of adding a
cover to be effortless and much easier then adding any other article
Add a cover to use with your prefolds, like a wrap cover
to hold them in place, easy peasy. And a wool or fleece cover
to use with your fitted diapers and fastened prefold, they work great
and are so cool and comfortable. They are the only type of cover I
use for my baby.
Pocket diapers are the most popular type of diaper
around, everyone should try one to see if that is the style for them.
There are lots of choices now: snaps or hook and loop fasteners, front
or side snaps, wide or narrow crotch (narrow is more trim and comfortable
but wider holds more stuffers and wetness), polyester versus cotton
(prettier but can lead to wicking because cotton absorbs wetness).
Since fit is critical for the function of pockets (as well as having
a residue free inner layer) you should try to find the brand that
fits and works best for your babe. Pick one that seems likely and
give it a try!
And everyone wants to have at least one AIO (All-In-One)
to have around for babysitters, grandmothers and other cloth diapering
newbies. But I recommend you do not but a true AIO where the absorbent
part is sealed between a waterproof layer and a water resistant layer.
It is very difficult to get these diapers cleaned and dried, not at
all convenient if your AIOs all stink! But a AIO with a layered design
would work. A good selection of shell and soaker types of AIOs are
available as well as other layered designs. Some shell and soaker
AIOs snap out so you can use a number of soakers with one shell, making
it a more cost effective system then other AIO designs.
So what you want
A fitted diaper or two (hemp or cotton or bamboo, lots of options!)
A wrap cover for you prefolds and a wool or fleece cover too.
A pocket diaper
An AIO diaper
Pick out 6-8 things that look interesting to you in the various types
and start using cloth part time right away!
Then after you figure
out what type of diapers work best for you then you can decide on
some wipes, pail liner and other extra details!.
Can you recommend
a starter sampler pack for an natural fibers Organic Cotton lover?
There are quite a
few lovely organic cotton choices like the Tiny Birds, Swaddlebees
Organic Velour and FunOrganics. And I do recommend you try at least
one prefold, they really are not very complicated at all. Placed in
one of those Imse Vimse Organic Velour or Wool covers makes them actually
very easy (although using a Snappi and any other cover is really a
snap as well!) I recommend you pick a half dozen likely products and
give it a try.
An Organic emphasis sampler order might be:
An organic prefold or two
A Wool Wrap Cover
An organic velour fitted diaper or
An organic cotton/hemp Fitted
An AIO with natural fiber inner
Another Wool cover to use with your fitted diapers (and Snappied prefolds!)
Pick out 6-8 things that look interesting to you in the various types
and start using cloth part time right away!
Remember natural fibers need lots of washings to remove the natural
oils before use.
Where are the true
There are lots of "true"
AIOs on the market that I could sell here and mamas are always looking
to buy them. But I do not want to sell you problems. I feel that
AIOs that are thick enough to hold wetness adequately and waterproof
on the outside are never going to be easy to clean properly and
will take forever to dry. Add a stay-dry liner to the AIO and you
only compound this problem. If you cannot properly wash it or even
more likely cannot properly rinse the detergent out of it you will
end up battling the stinkies. See Stinkies.
do I wash my new Fluff (cloth diapers)?
New diapers and doublers made
of unbleached cotton or hemp need to be washed at least 4-5 times
before use to become absorbent. Tightly- woven products like Unbleached
Chinese Prefolds or hemp BabyKicks Joey Bunz may need up to 10 washes
or more in very hot water to become absorbent. Hemp and cotton products
will free hemp oil and produce a lot of lint during this period
so do not include covers or pocket diapers in these washes. Boiling
will accelerate the breaking-in of new diapers, but do NOT boil
any diapers with plastic snaps or elastic. Absorbency will continue
to improve with subsequent washing. Wash all dyed products separately
in hot water until you are sure they will not bleed.
How do I wash cloth
There are as many
ways to wash diapers as there are babies in cloth diapers! Here are
some suggestions, please feel free to find the method that works best
Long warm or hot wash with maximum water level and agitation
One or two rinse cycles
Line or machine dry
Most people recommend
dry pail storage, because wet pail can pose a drowning hazard to curious
toddlers, and dry pail extends the life of your diapers.
Wet diapers and breastfed messies can go straight into the pail liner.
Shake solid messies or disposable liners into toilet and then store
diaper in pail liner.
If you use separate pail liners for wets and messies, you can add
messies to machine first to wash the stinky stuff away. I only prewash
my messy diapers, which gives them the plenty of swish room they need.
If using wet pail, ALWAYS use a child-safe system. Soak in water only,
change water daily to prevent odor buildup in diapers. Wet pails are
not necessary and, if you do not change the water frequently enough,
will cause stink problems. Soaking ages diapers faster.
Some people use the washing machine as a "wet pail" and
add diapers as they go. I recommend doing a rinse and spin, rather
Wash every 2-4 days. The more frequently you wash, the easier diapers
are to clean and the less damage done to your diapers from sitting
Add up to 1/8 cup baking soda to cold presoak and main wash only if
needed to prevent odors and stains.
Add up to 1/2 cup of vinegar to the first rinse in the fabric softener
dispenser or a Downy ball only if needed to help remove detergent
Do NOT use bleach on diapers. It is harmful to fabric and will prematurely
wear the diapers. Use sun for stain removal.(Many brands of commercial
detergent contain bleach.)
Do not use fabric softeners on diapers, it will decrease absorbency
and affect the performance of your diapers.
How does Inge wash
I store poopy diapers
separate from my wet diapers in a smaller Ditty Bag, which I store
in the diaper bag. On wash day I prerinse the small load of poopy
diapers separately so they get plenty of swish room in the machine
without getting poopy residue on all the diapers. If they are real
nasty I will add some baking soda to the prerinse. Then I add all
the rest of my diapering stuff, including washable covers and pail
liner (inside out). No wool in the washing machine! Then I run a hot
wash with a small amount of detergent and a cold rinse followed by
either an extra cold rinse or another water-only wash and rinse cycle
if I am concerned about detergent buildup and want them extra clean.
I line dry everything after a quick 5 minutes of fluffing in the dryer.
But if I machine dry (on rainy weeks) I will not put the covers or
bags in the dryer as they dry quickly enough clipped to the handles
of the cabinets or just on top of the dryer.
When my third was born, I simplified how I handle dirty diapers. I
do not dunk or swish or spray poopy diapers. I shake over the toilet
and anything pasted to the diaper gets removed by my poopy prerinse.
I find it much quicker and less yucky to wipe the corn and stuff out
of the machine after the prewash then to hang around a toilet spraying
or swishing! Don't use your toilet as a washing location, use your
machine for that! I wash diapers every other day shortly after my
little one has done his pooping for the day. So dirty diapers never
sit much more then 24 hours. This is very helpful in keeping the stink
away and not letting stains to set. The few that come out yellow,
sun right out, of course.
My best recommendation for washing is to keep things simple, choose
your detergent wisely and use plenty of water!
Washing is still
confusing! All the diapers and diaper sites have different washing
instructions, what are the brief general instructions?
To get diapers preped,
just remember synthetic fibers only need to be washed once. That include
all PUL, microterry and poly fleece.
Natural fibers need to be washed repeatedly until they are absorbent
as tested by a drip test (dribble water on them and see it rapidly
absorbed instead of running off the ducks back.) Natural fibers may
lint a lot during these washes so keep synthetic fleece away from
these washes. Natural fibers include anything hemp or cotton or bamboo.
The denser the weave the more washes will be required.
Once everything is prepped wash it all together when soiled! Prerinse
anything poopy in cold water. Add extra rinses after wash to be sure
all detergent residues are removed.
Why do my new prefolds
look so flat and stiff?
New unbleached cotton
prefolds look very flat and stiff before you wash them because the
diaper retains a lot of natural waxes found in cotton. They will not
absorb anything in this state! You need to pre-wash them before use
to remove these waxes. Any unbleached cotton or hemp diapering product
needs to be repeatedly washed in the hottest water you have until
the natural waxes and oils have been removed. I do not find drying
to be necessary during break-in washing. Some people will boil their
prefolds to accelerate this process but never boil any diaper with
snaps or elastic. Snaps will melt and fall off your diaper!
How will I know
when my diapers are ready to use?
Use the "drip
test." Dribble some water on the dry diaper. If it is quickly
absorbed then you can start using the product, although full absorbency
may not be achieved for several more washes. If water just sits on
the diaper or runs off or is absorbed slowly, then it needs more washing.
Hemp products usually need more washing then unbleached cotton. Densely
woven products like Chinese prefolds usually need more washing then
other products. How many washings needed will vary based on the temperature
and hardness of your water and the harshness of your detergent.
Why use wool for
Wool is a natural
fiber- that is great for babies. For centuries, mothers have chosen
to swaddle their infants in wool because of its magical properties.
It is suitable for all seasons and climates because it keeps you warm
in the winter and cool in the summer. Natural wool will absorb up
to 30% of its weight in moisture so it wicks moisture away from your
baby’s skin insuring that it stays dry. And wool also has amazing
antibacterial properties. Wool doesn't need to be washed after each
use, even when worn as a cloth diaper cover! Its natural moisture
content makes wool naturally fire-resistant. It is indeed a magical
What is hemp fleece?
Fleece is a confusing
word. It refers to texture, soft and fuzzy. You can have a fleecey
material made of cotton, polyester, hemp or anything. But those fabrics
will be very different. Most people in cloth diapering think of polyester
fleece when they hear the word fleece. Polyester is a non absorbent
material so is used in covers and stay dry layers next to baby. Hemp
or cotton fleece is just soft fluffy texture to absorbent material.
A very confusing word.
Which is more absorbent
one layer of hemp fleece or two layers of hemp jersey?
And layers are confusing
too. Because not all layers are of equal thickness. And it is the
amount of material which dictates absorbency not number of layers.
One thick fleece layer will hold more then two or three thin jersey
What is the difference
between lanolin liquid and lanolin balm?
According to wool
expert Meg of Sudz N Dudz,
"The balm contains complete solid lanolin and a percentage of
wool conditioning oils. That's what makes it smooth and "spreadable".
The liquid lanolin has been centrifuged to have the solid wax particles
removed from the lanolin. That's why it is clear. Both are just fine
for lanolizing. The solid can be scented, the liquid cannot. The liquid
is more economical but over looooong term use, because it lacks the
wax portion of the lanolin molecule, a user might find they need a
traditional lanolizing treatment every once in a while. Most of the
time, children grow out of the covers before anyone could possibly
notice the difference. The bar soap and the liquid to lesser degree,
contains solid lanolin so if you're using that, you certainly wouldn't'
ever have a problem anyway. "
What about Training
I do have some here,
but do not sell more types because I do not really believe in them.
I am a simple gal and do not see the need for special stuff that is
useful for such a short period of time. For all my boys I just used
fitted diapers as pull-ups (most types work fine this way) snapped
a little looser under a stretchy snapped cover (again, not too tight).
(For added motivation, no stay dry liners and not too absorbent so
they would be soggy when wet!) When they really wanted, they
got to wear one pair of character underwear a day. The undies did
not last long the first couple of days, but stayed dry all day within
2 weeks. The undie thing was totally the request of my second who
was really into them (I wanted him to stay a diaper tester!) You could
also try the double undie trick. To make regular undies into thicker
panel training undies just put two undies on your babe with a doubler
between them. A fleece-topped doubler with fleece facing the clothes
will not stop clothes from getting wet but will help if your babe
is just dribbling on the way to the potty. In my experience, if your
babe is truly ready for toilet learning, this is an extremely short
period of time. If it is not a short period of time, then your babe
is probably not really ready! Let me know if you find some nice WAHM
made Trainers I should add, I would love some feedback on this!
What do I do to
keep my diapers from getting poop stains?
The best thing for
poopie stains is to expose them to the sun. It is amazing what the
sunshine can do for diapers. Just like you put a yellow baby in the
window to treat jaundice, the sun magically conjugates the bilirubin
in the poop and the stain will magically vanish. You have to see it
work to believe it!
And poop stains is something that just happens to some diapers. To
decrease the staining a couple of factors are very important I think.
Most important is time. The longer the poo sits and the more it dries
out the more the stains set. So try washing more frequently. This
alone keeps all the stains away for me. The second thing is to try
to avoid heat setting them. That is why we prerinse with cold, to
get most of the poop out before we add the heat (which cooks the stains,
setting them.) Any diaper that has a stain can be hung out to sun.
You can even sun stains out thru a sunny window although the glass
makes it take longer then when they are outdoors. If it is very important
to avoid stains you can try a wet bucket for the poopie diapers so
they do not dry out. But this is usually far more work then necessary
as you must change the water extremely frequently (a couple of times
a day) so you are not soaking in poop soup making smell problems and
creates a drowning hazard risk. But lots of moms just do not worry
about stains. After all, they are diapers!
Why are my covers and diapers
Why is my hemp stiff?
Both are caused by
the same thing! Cloth diapering should never be stinky or stiff. If
your diapers and covers are stiffer then when your first bought them
or smell bad as soon as they get used, then you have a problem. Usually
the problem is detergent buildup. Occasionally the problem is that they
are not getting clean enough. Smell them when they are wet out of the
washer and warm out of the dryer. If they are stinky, then they are
not getting cleaned enough. If they smell fine but stink as soon as
they are used, then they have detergent buildup. The first suggestion
which will work for both problems is to make sure you have enough water
in your machine and enough swish room for your diapers. Some front-loading
washing machines do not add enough water to thoroughly soak thick diapers
and will not do a good job in getting them clean. Adding water to the
machine can remedy this problem. Do not overload your machine with diapers
or they will not get clean. They need their swish room! I recommend
you get a diaper pail that only holds one comfortable load’s worth
to help avoid the temptation to put too many diapers in. Get rid of
the mega-pail use a hanging pail liner instead!
If you have detergent buildup, then it is time to strip wash them. The
simplest way is to put them through hot washes with no detergent until
all the sudsing is gone and the stinky problem goes away. You can try
to accelerate the removal of detergent by adding a little vinegar or
baking soda to the water. Avoid using vinegar when your water has lots
of minerals, because this can make stinky problems worse. I recommend
always doing a pure water rinse after using vinegar because you do not
want vinegar residue in your diapers either. Vinegar works to make your
diapers softer because it will help remove the scratchy detergent residue.
Baking Soda and its harsh cousin, Washing Soda, do a great job of neutralizing
these odors. But watch out for the holes that overuse of Washing Soda
will cause. Use it only when necessary. It is still much gentler on
diapers then bleach would be. Do not use bleach as most diapers will
disappear pretty quickly when bleached. Another useful approach to stinky
diapers is to line dry them. It is amazing what a little fresh air and
UV radiation can do to help freshen them up!
But the best way to approach stinky diapers is to try to avoid them
in the first place. I keep careful watch on my fleece covers and thickest
hemp diapers because the stink always shows up in polyester and then
super absorbent hemp first. Use a very small amount of a clean rinsing
detergent to prevent the stinkies. Also peek into your rinse cycle from
time to time to check for the amount of suds. Whenever the stinkies
start, I add an extra rinse, decrease the amount of detergent I use
and occasionally add vinegar to the first rinse. This usually fixes
things right up for me. I also avoid letting diapers sit too long between
washes. Washing diapers frequently not only makes it easier to get them
clean but also increases the life span of the diaper. Urine can be a
powerful enemy of elastic and diaper fibers so the shorter it sits in
your diapers, the longer they will last. I wash diapers every other
day for this reason.
Will fleece covers
wick pee away from the babe's diaper to the onesie outside of the cover?
Will everything will get soaked?
This is a common misperception.
Polyester fleece is a non absorbent material. Wetness always needs to
have somewhere to go. So if you have a thin nonabsorbent material next
to your babe with an absorbent material on the other side then the wetness
will wick thru to the absorbent material. But if the wetness is being
held by an absorbent material and is next to a non absorbent material
then there is no reason why it will go thru unless the absorbent material
is not holding the wetness adequately (soggy diaper) or is force thru
by a forceful wetter.
So that is the complicated way of saying as long as you have an adequately
absorbent diaper that is thick enough to stop the stream of urine your
little on makes and is not squeezed too tight by a sling or car seat
then the fleece cover will work great. The biggest reason for fleece
cover failure is not having enough diaper on the baby to hold what your
babe is wetting. The other reason for failure is when you have detergent
or other residues in the cover that the wetness can travel thru on (which
also stinks terribly when wet with urine!).
Also the thicker the fleece the less likely any wetness can be squeezed
thru soggy spots, so for overnights and other times when the diaper
will get soggy, a thicker (and bulkier) doubler layer cover is recommended.
Why don't my fleece covers work?
Polar fleece does not
stink! It is great stuff for diapering. It is used for great breathable
covers and for stay-dry liners. Polar fleece works because it does not
absorb water. So it makes a great dry layer as a cover or as a liner.
But because it does not absorb water it is most prone to detergent buildup.
Water with detergent penetrates the fleece but plain water does not
so it is hard to rinse the detergent out of the fleece. If you get detergent
in your fleece it will stink and it won't work. The residue will wick
wetness thru covers where you do not want it and interfere with the
wicking needed to make stay-dry liners work. And the residue will smell
terrible when they come into contact with urine. Clean fleece does not
stink. You can reuse fleece covers as frequently as you can non-fleece
covers as long as they do not have any residue in them. When your overnight
fleece covers and hemp diapers smell bad in the morning, don't replace
them with something else, start stripping them. See the paragraph above
for more info on stripping detergent residue!
I know I have residues
to strip, what will work best?
on what is built up in the diapers as to what would work the best. The
generic fits all buildups is more hot water rinses and time on the line
soaking up some UV rays. But if that is not working then you need to
think about what might be in them. Choices are:
Minerals (and different minerals act differently in differing water
pH)- for minerals some folks have luck with Calgon and other water softening
Cationic or Anionic detergent residues- whatever pH you have stuck in
your dipes dictates whether the treatment is vinegar the acid to treat
basic buildup or baking soda the base to treat acidic buildups. Knowing
the pH of your water may help you decide which you have.
Detergent additives like optical whiteners- hopefully you do not have
this because you have made a wise detergent choice in the first place,
but if you do, find a detergent that does not have whiteners or stain
fighters and use it to.
Excess washing soda from Charlies Soap-It is a base so try vinegar rinses.
Oils from natural detergent
or soaps- Dawn dish detergent, but then you need to rinse well to get
the Dawn out.
What about compression
wicking with fleece covers?
The secret to preventing
compression wicking with fleece covers is what you have under the fleece
cover. If you have enough layers in the wetzone then the diaper under
the fleece will stop the flow of the urine and not be squeezably soggy
right under the cover. I have a boy who occasionally hoses (pees so
forcefully that he can pee right thru a fleece cover) so I need to have
enough layers of material in the wet zone to stop the force of the urine
as fleece covers to do not stop the flow of forceful urine. If your
diaper is not doing the job at stopping compression leaking you might
want to try this. Take a fleece topped doubler and put it fleece side
facing the fleece cover between the diaper and the cover so that you
have a less compressible doubler layer fleece cover in the wet zone
(or use a fleece liner and put it next to the cover but I like the idea
of adding some absorbency in the right spot as well, Polar Babies are
still currently my thinnest and therefore trimmest doubler I prefer
for this use). Or to make a cover uncompressible would be to find a
scrap of PUL or something waterproof and put it right in the wet zone.
Why don't my pocket
Pocket diapers require
several important factors to work properly. If these requirements are
not met, they will leak and sometimes they will not hold anything if
you do not follow these very important rules:
1 Buy the correct size!
Fit is critical to function! If legs and waists gap then wetness will
run right out before being absorbed!
2 Be sure inserts are properly primed (see Washing
New Diapers)and adequately absorbent for your baby's output! If
you do not have enough stuffed into the pocket to hold the wetness,
then it will leak. Heavier wetters and overnights need larger pocket
width so you can stuff more in. Lighter wetters can use trimmer pockets.
3. Be sure the insert you are using fits the pocket properly. Inserts
that are too narrow or too wide for the pocket will cause problems.
4. Make sure the speed of absorbency of the inserts match what you need
of it. some babies pee more forcefully then others and require inserts
that have faster absorbency like microterry. Be sure your absorbency
you are using with your pocket matches what you need of it. Forceful
heavy wetting babes often require the use of both a mircroterry insert
next to the babe paired with a hemp insert to hold the volume.
5. Use detergent that does not clog the fleece. If your fleece is clogged
and not wicking correctly then strip them (see above).
One thing to help you
determine where the problem lies is how wet your inserts are when the
leak happens. If the insert are not very wet then look to fit of the
pocket, function of the fleece and speed of absorbency. If the inserts
are soggy then you need more absorbency.
How do I stop my diaper
pail from stinking?
I recommend you store
your diapers with as much airflow as possible to decrease stinkiness.
Most pail stink problems come from fermentation in your diaper pail.
If you can stop fermentation by making sure your diapers have adequate
air flow then you will have much less pail stink! So skip the lid on
that pail, or better yet skip the pail altogether and just use a hanging
do you recommend?
Well it is easier to
tell you what not to use:
don't use bleach – it causes holes
don't use fabric softener – it interferes with
don't use products with Stain fighters - these ingredient
will coat fibers just like fabric softeners and make your diapers less
absorbent and your covers leak
try not to use detergent
with additives like brighteners, optical whiteners,
fluorescent dyes – these chemicals (found in most brands
of "free" detergent are designed to be residues left behind
in clothes and are a very common source of build-up stink and repelling
and stiff scratchiness in diapers. They can also be very difficult to
remove when you have them in your diapers!!
avoid fragrance& dyes – they can irritate
babies skin and lead to residue stink and repelling problem
avoid detergent with enzymes – if not rinsed
out properly, it can cause burns on baby's bottoms when wet
avoid non-chlorine or oxygen bleach – sometimes
it will lead to holes especially in hemp, especially if bleach has ever
been used and might damage waterproof covers
avoid natural soap-based detergent if you are using
pocket diapers or stay-dry fleece liners – it may leave a soap
scum film that will clog the fleece, and make pocket diapers leak
avoid natural oil-based detergent if you are using
pocket diapers or stay-dry fleece liners – it
will leave an oil film that will clog the fleece, this includes grapefruit
seed oil (Bio-Kleen), hemp oil (Dr. Bronners) and others
Some detergent recommended
by pocket makers as clean rinsing safe for diapers are:
Allen's Naturally, EcoVer
Sunlight, Tide, Cheer, Era, and Clout (these would all cause immediate
rash for my sensitive boy)
Fuzzi Bunz recommends Seventh Generation (it has non-chlorine bleach),
Happy Heinys says not to use it
Lots of sites recommend BioKleen as a good choice , but it’s not
recommended by Fuzzi Bunz and Happy Heinys. I found it to cause detergent
buildup problems because of the Grapefruit Seed Oil.
I still have the most
success with Sensi-Clean but you can still get detergent build-up from
this detergent and have heard stories of babies that got nasty burns
from residues in their diapers with this detergent.
Charlie's Soaps in
a new detergent (not soap like then name suggests) which uses Washing
Soda to boost its cleaning. While Washing Soda (stronger cousin to Baking
Soda) can be harsh (like oxygen bleach) it is better then a detergent
with other additives (stain guard, optical whiteners, etc) that leave
residues. You could add Washing Soda on your own to milder detergents
like Sensi-Clean as needed for the same effect.
As you see, everyone
seems to have their own opinion on this. I recommend you use whatever
seems to work best for your baby, preferably with the least amount of
the above additives!
do I use cloth wipes?
Keep wipes in either
a wet or dry container or wipes warmer.
If storing wet, change solution frequently to avoid mold.
If storing dry, use spray bottle or Peri bottle to moisten wipes before
Wash wipes with diapers.
The best wipes solution is plain water. But a good wipes solution is
water (regular or distilled) with a very small amount of pure baby wash
and/or a nice oil (like apricot or jojoba oil) for added cleansing.
Add a drop or two of tea tree oil or lavender essential oil to kill
bacteria and mold and to add a pleasing fragrance.
do I wash diaper covers?
Store soiled covers
separately from diapers when possible.
Line dry to extend useful life of cover.
Dry PUL covers and pockets on hot occasionally to "recharge"
the PUL and restore its waterproofing
Follow cover care recommendations. Improper care can cause waterproof
covers to lose waterproofing.
Avoid excessive heat, like overstuffed dryer hot spot, fleece can melt
if it gets too hot.
Most covers do not need to be laundered after each use. Simply hang
to dry if damp and launder when messies occur or as often as needed.
do I wash cloth menstrual pads?
Rinse or soak pads
in cold water before laundering.
Wash with the next load of similar colored laundry or wash in a small
cycle with other pads or wash with cloth diapers.
If soaking change water at least every day until laundering.
What do I do for a
stinky diaper pail?
But the best pail destinker
in my opinion is no lid. Pail stink is due to fermentation in low airflow
conditions. If you can stop fermentation by providing plenty of oxygen
you will stop the stink. It seems counter intuitive, but for your next
load keep the lid open until they stink so much you need to close it.
You may find that if you can get enough air flow to the diapers that
you never need to close it, that they do not smell bad until the lid
is closed and then they start to stink. A perk is that if you can stop
the fermentation your diapers will last longer!
If just airflow is not enough to keep the stink away, try sprinkling
baking soda in the pail or adding essential oils on a cloth. If using
essential oils do not use too much, or you may not want to wash the
oiled cloth with the diapers to prevent the oils from getting into your
How do I decide which
size to pick if my babe is between sizes on the size chart?
That depends: is your
babe a chunky monkey or a skinny minnie? Usually chunky monkeys need
to size up sooner then skinnier babes. Do you want the diaper to fit
great now or do you want it to be a bit bulky now but fit well for a
long time? If you want a diaper to be as trim as possible you will probably
be happier using the smaller diaper as long as possible. But if you
want the diaper to fit for a long time and do not mind some bulkiness
until your babe grows into it then you may prefer the larger diaper.You
may also want to size up if you are looking for the most absorbency
because the bigger diaper will hold a little more wetness then the smaller
diaper. But remember shapes change as babies grow. How old is your baby?
Older babies are not always bigger babies. My babes were all chunky
monkeys up until they started to walk at which point they thinned out
considerably. The diaper was always much looser on my two year old then
when the same child was 8 months old. So it is not unusual for babies
to not need to size up into a bigger size then when they start walking
at all. In my house, just before walking was the largest diaper size.
How do I find a diaper
which fits my skinny minnie or my chunky monkey?
This is always a tough
one. In general skinnier children need to stay in the smaller sizes
for longer and chunksters need to size up sooner. But this means that
skinny childern in the smaller sizes will end up having too short rise
and length problems and chunksters sizing up sooner will need to be
rolling things up and having dipaers go up to their armpits because
everything is way to long. You need to decide which way you are most
comfortable in going with the fit of things (too short but do not fall
down or long enough but do not stay up on a skinny child, not much choice
on this for a chunkster) or find a diaper maker who is designing diapers
based on her own skinny or chunky children. So when looking for a diaper
if you have a skinny child stay away from diapers that claim to be low
rise and if you have a chunkster look for a low rise diaper.
I decide what is right for my baby?
There are undoubtedly
a mind-boggling array of cloth diapering products available these days.
One can easily get bewildered without even leaving DiaperWare. I thought
I would ask you a few questions to help you figure out what is right
Which is more
important to you?
A trim diaper or an
A soft diaper or an absorbent diaper?
A diaper that absorbs quickly or a diaper that holds the most?
Easy to use or easy to clean?
Ease of use or low cost?
Natural or synthetic fibers?
Breathable or waterproof?
Of course everyone
wants the trimmest, most absorbent diaper that is soft, absorbs quickly,
holds the most, is easy to use and clean, and is low cost. But if that
were found in one diaper, all the other diapers would not exist. So
think about these questions and what is most important to you when deciding
what is best for you!
Absorbency: Everyone wants a trim diaper but unfortunately
you do need a certain amount of material to be absorbent. Tiny diapers
hold less wetness then bigger diapers. Hemp can hold more then cotton
for the amount of material involved so it can be a good option for those
looking to decrease bulkiness. But be careful about trimness because
there is no getting around the basic physics that you need to have enough
material to hold the wetness.
Softness versus Absorbency
or Cotton versus Hemp: Hemp is the wonder fabric for cloth
diapering. It holds 50% more wetness for a similar amount of material
(I hear, but have not figured out a good test for this yet.) So if
you are looking for a diaper that holds more wetness without more
bulk, look for a hemp diaper. It is also naturally microbial resistant
and more durable then plain cotton. However even with the hemp/cotton
blends used in all of DiaperWare's products, hemp is not as soft as
cotton especially if you have scratchy detergent residues in your
hemp. Hemp is more absorbent and therefore more likely to get detergent
buildup, which causes stinky diapers (when peed on.) But I find that
if you are careful about detergent residue hemp will still be quite
soft and not stinky at all.
Flooders versus Hosers:
Some babies will let a large amount of wetness out very quickly at
one time. I call them Flooders. You need a diaper that will hold a
large volume for Flooders. But you also need a diaper that will absorb
quickly with flooders to prevent overflow problems, especially with
pocket diapers or microfleece lined systems. Other babes will let
it out with great force. I call those babes Hosers. For them you need
enough density of layers to stop the force of the stream. Flooders
may do better with a two layer system (like fitted and cover) so wetness
hits an absorbent layer before it hits the cover. Hosers need to be
sure there is enough material to stop the flow of wetness before it
hits the cover if they want to use breathable fleece or wool covers
or they will wet right thru the cover.
Speed of absorbency versus
Amount of absorbency: For babies that need high volume of
absorbency you need a lot of material. Volume of absorbency can be
roughly correlated to weight of material. The heavier the diaper the
more it probably holds. But speed of absorbency is controlled by the
density of the fabric. Denser fabrics will take up less space and
are trimmer, but they also are slower to absorb. Looser weaves will
absorb more quickly but take up more space. There are lots of theories
as to what is the ideal diaper fabric. You want something with enough
weight and material to hold the desired volume. And you want it to
be not too bulky, but also not so tight that it does not absorb quickly
enough to work well. Fleece and french terry like materials tend to
be a happy medium in the density department.
Number of layers versus
Thickness of layers: Just counting the layers a diaper is
made of can be a deceptive way to judge comparative absorbencies because
in most cases the layers may not be of equal thickness. I think weight
is a better way to judge how much absorbent material is there. So
when comparing absorbency volume I recommend looking for weights of
equal types of materials (compare hemp blend to hemp blend and cotton
to cotton and cotton blend to cotton blend.) Then try to determine
which material is more dense so you can judge speed of absorbency
versus trimness. See Absorbency for weights
of DiaperWare products.
Ease of Use versus Ease
of Cleaning: Thick diapers that are all sewn into one layer
are very difficult to get clean, are prone to detergent residue and
take forever to dry. True AIOs may be less durable since the cover
part of the diaper cannot be washed separately from the diaper part.
You are much better off getting a diapering system with layers of
some type. Pockets and shell and soaker AIOs are convenient in that
they hold the layers together while you are putting them on your babe
but separate for easy washing. But prefolds, doublers, snap-in soakers
and many other layered systems are just as easy in my opinion.
Ease of Use: Some people think that the less expensive options
like prefolds require a tiny bit more effort to put on. But I think
that given a little practice you can easily become an expert and use
all systems with ease. Some like to have easy-to-understand options
like AIOs and pre-stuffed pockets available for fathers, other family
members, babysitters and daycare. I like to have a variety of diapers
in my collection to use in a variety of situations.
versus Synthetic Fiber: Natural fibers are less likely to bother
sensitive skin and less impact on the environment (generally), they
can be less prone to detergent residues unless they are sewn too thickly.
But they will definitely not last as long as synthetic fibers. Synthetic
fibers will last longer and can be made waterproof. The newer pocket
diapers and their microterry inserts are all durable synthetic materials.
Generally the thing that wears out with these diapers is the elastic
or the waterproofing layer. If a Natural Fiber is PUL coated then it
will still get holes in it with use. Addition of polyester to a cotton
diaper will mean that as the cotton wears away you will still have a
useable (but much less absorbent) diaper because poly framework prevents
the holes that develop in natural fibers. So are you looking for the
softness and purity of natural fibers or the durability of high tech
How do I decide
which cover is right for my baby?
for more info on this topic including a comparison on breathability
versus bulk on various fleece covers!
What do I recommend?
I recommend that you
do not buy a whole set of something before you try them out. Just buy
a little of this and a little of that to use until you figure out what
you like. You will not know until you try if you are a prefold or a
fitted and cover or a pocket and insert or an AIO kind of diaperer until
you try them. If your wee one is a light or heavy wetter or skinny or
chunky babe makes a big difference in what will work best. So my recommendation….
Buy a couple of prefolds and wrap covers, a contour, a fitted or two
and cover, a pocket and insert, an AIO. Maybe throw some wipes and bags
into the mix. Diaper in cloth part-time for the first couple of days
or wash frequently. When you have used them long enough to know what
you like and dislike, then buy more so you do not have to do wash so
frequently. If you do buy a bunch of something only wash and use one
or two diapers until you are sure they are the right diaper! If you
have any questions while you are figuring it out let me know! It really
is easy once you get the hang of it, much easier then constantly buying
more and disposing of those nasty disposables. Make sense?
What do I use?
I use mostly hemp fitted
diapers and fleece covers. If I can get my busy boy to lay down, I use
a Snappied prefold, but that only usually happens for messy changes.
The rest of the time I do diaper changes standing up. We battle enough
every day, avoiding diaper change battles just makes my life a little
easier. But I have all sorts of diapers and use different dipes for
different circumstances. What do you use?
What do I do when
I am done with these diapers? (DiaperWare Resale Program!)
Save them for the next
baby or sell them! (Can't sell used disposables, LOL)
Some places that might
be good places for selling used products:
For Sale or Trade Cloth Diapers
Kitty Bids Auctions
There are lots more
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